The Eeman

Bismillahir rahman nirraheem ,
(3:31) (O Messenger!) Tell people: 'If you indeed love Allah, follow me, and Allah will love you and will forgive you your sins. Allah is All-Forgiving, All-Compassionate.'
3:32) Say: 'Obey Allah and obey the Messenger.' If they turn away from this then know that Allah does not love those who refuse to obey Him and His Messenger.
To purify our eman means freeing it from shirks .The shirks which v can cum across in daily life are ,
1. Calling anyone other than Allah as a saviour and associating anything with him like saying "ya roosulullah ....","ya maideen andavar .....", " ya nahore andavar , etc .saying "ur my all in all "too is shirk .Allah says in al-quran,
9:31) They have made their scholars and monks as their Lords beside Allah, and likewise the Messiah, the son of Mary, although they were enjoined not to worship any other than the One Deity, besides Whom there is none worthy of worship. He is absolutely pure and free from what they associate with Him
2. Dividing ourselves from muslims in to sects as sunny n shia , shafi n hanafi , maraikayar and syed n so on .... Every newborn baby is born a Muslim only.
3. Call him directly.and do not call Allah indirectly by keeping a waseela like," ya Allah, l ike help me in the name of aulia .........". v r supposed to invoke him directly .besides , taweez , going to hafsa for "othi parkarathu ", too r shirk
4.Associating others with Allah in his power , characteristics and properties . coz he is the one and only in all aspects
5. describing Allah's appearance as " noori " n so on . no one knows how our lord looks like and noor is the hijab of Allah ,he created everything on earth so he cant b compared with anything on earth
6. Worshipping in tombs thinking tht those who r burried can hear us and answer us
7. Turning away from Allah by doing things against Quran and sunnah like "my uncle said so ...."," my mom said so " whtever . celebrating valentines day birth days , anniversaries etc are now clearly against quran and sunnah . coz birth is a natural thing like wise death too . getting money for saying azaan , for teaching quran , as dowry from bride are haram in islam .
(3:29) Say: 'Whether you conceal what is in your hearts or disclose it, Allah knows it. Allah knows what is in the heavens and in the earth and He has power over everything.'